Not Always Easy, But Worth the Wait

Not Always Easy, But Worth the Wait … Life happens and legacies are created in the midst of the firm and storms. Don’t allow your abundant light to diminish, but instead cut your wick to get a better glow as you take this time to seriously sow into your internal growth.

As a woman, I found that cutting a little bit of my hair biweekly and taking the right vitamins makes my hair grow, hence MESSAGE: giving up a little here in there to trim yourself of things, places, and people will help reshape you and have you grow to Become Who You Already Are with the right intake of thought, actions and deeds.

In life we leave things undone and like hair follicles we are split in between thoughts and decisions, but when it’s broken you must fix it by finding ways to re-grow it (what works for one may not work for another) by pouring more time and patience  while watching it grow.

Again it isn’t always easy, but worth the wait to replenish you with positive feedback (motivational self talk), positive reinforcement, good books, and better company that ignites the greatness buried within you, but REMEMBER —>

You can NOT fully BECOME you if you are still:

  • Empty
  • Broken
  • Out of Oil (my oil is The Holy Bible, Prayer Life, & Positive Books)
  • Refuse to use Wisdom
  • Your wick is too short to light
  • Unwilling to pour back into self
  • Burning both ends of the candle
  • Never seek or listen to wise counsel
  • You still have a short fuss and are close minded

Restoring the emptiness within by cutting the wick of your life certainly you will see a change in your walk, illumination within along with the relationship with others.

Listening while using wisdom and being mindful of the time you commit to self as well as others is essential on your road to Becoming Who You Already Are, but mylove, you must ALWAYS know that not using wisdom (refusing to get adequate rest), or pour positive words back into your now and future moments can stop your growth altogether, so be mindful of that and realign what is needed.

It is NOT always easy to get what you want, but it will ALWAYS be worth the time invested along with all the oil you burned during the wait. In the waiting room of life things happen along the way. You can plan, prepare and align and all that is well, but if you aren’t tough enough to deal with all the balls life will assign for you to juggle it will be rather difficult to balance it all.

If you’ve ever been in the waiting room of a New York Hospital (or a big crowded City), you know you are positioned to simply wait, and sometimes with NO warning of how long, or the next hoop you should jump through to get to the head of the line. Needless to say like me, you will need a lot of patience-and that isn’t always easy-, tenacity and stamina to wait, and simply stand in the midst of the agony as you may (like I have in the past) feel defeated.

During the wait, I imagine life is watching your reaction to all the things occurring in and around you to jot down if you are ready for the very thing you await, and often it will hold you back from getting it all so you don’t prematurely develop; only to lose it all again and start from scratch.  Here is a little secret for us all, the thing that we wait years on desires to break free in and around us too, especially in the atmosphere and in our lives, but sadly we are stiff necked & in the way. There is an amazing blessing that you have sown while waiting (you know if you have planted good seeds) as you groaned in the labor pangs of life, living and leveraging the lessons along the way, so know the Universe plans to restore it all unto you, so stay ready.

Be careful while in waiting. Do not sit idle in fact it is best to become adjusted to the process of having less during the fight of your life and all the mess because you MUST believe that behold within the mess therein is your message to help you and others stay focused on the abundant harvest that is s close. Keep your strength to deliver your blessing thereby stay ready by crossing all your T’s and dotted all your I’s. Your baby (babies are) is coming, so DO NOT forget to deliver them all because there are many that need what you have within you. As you gift makes room for you it is BEST TO STAY OUT OF YOUR OWN WAY.

The question at this critical stage is do you have any more energy in you to push pass the challenges , obstacles, and those things purposely positioned to rip the baby (message) out of you —> breaching it before you can reach while teaching with it.

When you are in the cleft of the rock, and it all is about to be revealed (destiny), many darts will fly and things will come, occur, leave, move, so adjusting your sails for the ride of your life will be the best thing to do, so as you are closer than ever REMEMBER Diamonds are made in pressure, so as life turns the heat up be certain to keep you wick trimmed, read, influence yourself, adjust your sails because you are in the ride of your life —> where purpose, destiny and fulfillment are all aligned because you knew it wasn’t always going to be easy, but so worth it because through the tears, fears and years you stood and passed the test.

REMEMBER Do NOT give up in lives waiting room even if it’s been years –> Keep waiting, trusting and believing —> (I am a stern believer that there SHALL BE VICTORY IN THE WAIT) since I do NOT have all I want in this life, but my FAITH tells me that I can have it all, hence happiness, excellent health, residual wealth, a thriving business, great friendships, amazing and loving relationship & then some.


If you find that you need help in life, business or otherwise simply call for a FREE 25 minute Consultation (646.397.7593). One of my passions is to help you get yourself focused and back on target to #BecomeWhoYouAlreadyAre

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