How to Become You When Nothing is Left

How to Become You When Nothing is Left…

Or at least it seems … right? (Why do New Yorkers say right after a sentence maybe it is because we are so persuasive?)

What do I mean become you when nothing is left?

Daphne D Williams

Becoming when it seems as if Nothing is left. Using more wisdom this stretch of the journey until I get there. Copyright 2009-2014 Daphne D. Williams of

Often at the close of the day or the dew drop of morning life can seem to be overwhelming, difficult, a lot and too much too handle all wrapped in agony of defeat, Doctors reports all while not having the love you think would make you happy.


The Disclaimer is a Life Lesson that I learned, which took some time, but I learned it nonetheless. Boy oh boy do I LOVE me some me now without a doubt.

Loving yourself can sadly make others a little uncomfortable since you no longer put others before you.

Well to bad for them because if loving me is wrong, I will NEVER be right. Hahahaha some lyrics my Mom use to sing with a Daphne D. Williams twist.

You call it selfish, I call it self-perseverance. Tomatoes vs. Tomato. Who cares as long as you learn to bring spiritual food to the table of your life adding the right ingredients and not allowing others the opportunity to serve you poison, guilt, pain, stress, and or mess.

Everyday someone is dying of something right, and some place new life begins both naturally and spiritually. A lot of us cause more pain to our very existence due to stress, and sadly I have witnessed this on a personal level along with family members.

It can be proven that stress can kill more people than an actual terminal illness which many people are dealing with and simply because of their mindset can thrive with an illness and erase its symptoms, but more about this later.

When speaking to people they are often begin the conversation with complaining when you ask them how are you feeling today. Usually folks will run down a list of all their ailments and never once say one encouraging word nor speak of the blessings they have received. In the presence of doubters, complainers, and negative humans can have a negative effect on the atmosphere, and your mode along with your disposition.

My thoughts on negative or toxic people, places, family members, frienemies, and things -> STAY AWAY from them. Negative energy produces more negative energy and living within this world there is already enough foolishness on the News, and happening around us, but we DO NOT have to partake in it EVER!

The language you decide to use has the potential to elevate you from illness to wellness or from happiness to misery; depending on your view on the world and what you bring to it. The bottom line is STOP WORRYING, especially if you are going to PRAY. {Note to Self}

Usually poverty minded people worrying about something they can’t control (Traffic, Time, Their Bosses Attitude, Other People’s Behavior) or other things that they have allowed to get out of hand, thus making mountains out of molehills (My Grandmother use to say this all the time, and now I finally get it). It’s best to refocus how you deal with things, places and situations despite the circumstances, thus always believing even when you feel like it is NOTHING left; knowing that indeed as long as you wake up there is ALWAYS something else left to do, give, and live for as you seek to become.

We need to use our hands for more than for shooing people away (It is a shame that in this information age people refuse to answer the telephone, never return text, and ONLY call or reach out to you when they have a need or desire to “pick your brain”. All those type of users get from me is the side eye and voicemail because if I have personally allowed you in my life and you abused your time then lets simply agree that has ended –> only problem is I obtained the memo late. Most shoo you away because you don’t share their ideologies, or aura, but once you know your own value and worth, you know that these people were never folk you should have casted your pearls upon. Now it is time for us the ones who desire more of life and not simply for ourselves, but genuinely from others, we need to commit to raising our hands to SURRENDER you, your thoughts and your gifts back to your Creator to be used according to His good works.

No longer crying over the mess, but sharing the message to the masses was the point of all the pain, and now your gifts are ready to make room for you, so be free. Using your hands wisely in surrender mode to a Higher Power is essential. Brushing your shoulders of while releasing the stress from your temple, walk, and business, especially if you have given up before getting started. Prayerfully out of fear, doubt, you are not the type to constantly talk yourself out of something (or allow others to do the same) that you know you desire, and will not be content until you meet that goal.

The temple must be honored, respected and treasured from what goes in and what comes out both literally and figuratively. {ANOTHER NOTE TO SELF} We are the gems we seek in others. Stop thinking it (whatever you IT is) will appear!

We have the power to lift ourselves out of dry places by reframing our thoughts, thus changing our mindsets by daily renewing our minds while adjusting the words we chose to speak in, around and over our lives, circumstances & future.

If you are young don’t worry! If you are old don’t worry! If you are fat don’t worry, but actively do something to change that if you desire to be healthier. If you are skinny and are worried about not being thick enough, be you, love you and do whats right for you not what others think, do nor say. If you are always feeling empty PLEASE DO NOT panic and stop worrying! Again why worry when you can pray. Yeah that statement is easier to write than to actually partake in, but you MUST start someplace, so why not right here and right now?

There was a time that I remember very well when things didn’t go my way, I would shut down No Prayer Life, No Words, & often I would abandon me while putting everybody else first. Well now I have made a conscious decision to OPEN MY BIG MOUTH & PRAY despite how painful it may be to do while in the midst of the many storms of life. In addition while working on surrendering my wants and needs for what I was purposed to do, I have decided to KIDNAP MYSELF until I get what I showed up on this big ball of dirt to do, accomplish and become. There will be NO RANSOM letter that anyone can read, but me, so I am in control on how this kidnapping turns out as I will be negotiating with the greatest part of me to come forward and rescue me from whatever ails, limits, prevents and attempts to subdue me because like you, I am worth being amazingly great in all the creative talents.


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Some of us say we can’t pray while others never pray or simply rely on others to pray for them, but are NEVER available when those same people need them. Go Figure. For me it is a personal thing, I MUST pray for me, but honestly I didn’t always believe this. Well you may not be able to pray like me-I am no super prayer (whatever that means) or anything, but often I am asked to pray (I use to hate it, but now I am okay with it)-, your Pastor or the Televangelist. Prayer myloves is simply a conversation with your Higher Power, and for me that is God, so yeah, I pray to God, and I seek answers, results thereby consistently I am taking action at being a better me to get where I say I desire to be. What are you doing to get the things you desire from life & living?

By far, my life hasn’t been no  (double negative on purpose) crystal stair. You may be like me, and have survived or rather endured your childhood and often seem to merely exist as an adult, but we both must believe and know that there is indeed better just for us. If you believe any of the above well then hats off to us both. Again it hasn’t been a crystal stair (double negative deleted on purpose) to say the least or the most depending on your perspective on it all, but my beginning will never determine my middle nor ending as I am expecting VICTORY as even when I lose to others I believe I have WON because the way my Faith is set up. 😉

Thanks for reading myloves, being in this space with me, so know that I value you and your gifts you bring.

Be certain to leave a comment below, share with your Family, Friends, Co-workers, on Social Media and email a couple of people too. Leave your response, questions and/or your story of how you overcame or are overcoming to find exactly who you are as you commit to become.

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